Make sure that none could go over you and succeed. It helps you stay motivated and be in the hall of participation. Even if you are not in the hall of participation, warn others that until you have chosen not to participate in what you are actually a part of, let them be calm and silent.
Failures could teach you the environment you are in with the big picture what is happening around you. Only participation can take you to failures. So, it should be only you when the topic is participation.
It should be only you when the topic is about Perfection. Perfection could be achieved only when there is passion towards what you are doing. When participation and perfection joins together, then it can be only you when the topic is about success.
Be motivated. No matter who is with you, who is around you, who is besides you. Only You can motivate You. It can be only you. Remember that Apple, Microsoft and Facebook are remembered by only one person. Because, the war is about the Throne. Only One could take the throne and it should be only you, cause its your throne.